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There are many lists about what essentials to buy for your newborn, but preparing for parenthood also means surrounding yourself with the right support network.
The phrase “it takes a village to raise a child” holds true; having supportive people around you is vital for maintaining your well-being and navigating the early days of parenthood. Don’t leave this network to chance—assembling the right friends can make your first year as a parent much smoother.
Here are the five essential types of friends every new parent should have in their support circle.
We all know that one friend who, like Monica from Friends, loves to clean. Let go of any concerns about being judged—this friend relishes the opportunity to tidy up, knows all about non-toxic, baby-safe cleaning products, and delights in transforming your messy space into a spotless sanctuary.
Raising a child can cost over £10,000 annually, so having a friend who finds deals—like getting £25 worth of nappies for £12.50—is a game-changer. This friend loves shopping and knows where to spot bargains, so take advantage by sending a list of items for them to grab when they’re next out.
This is the most challenging friend to find, but a seasoned mum friend can make all the difference. She’ll be honest about the realities of parenting, share practical advice, and offer trusted babysitter recommendations. You can also count on her to watch the baby, allowing you a precious break.
Sometimes, you’ll catch yourself wondering about office life and who’s dating whom in HR. This friend keeps you in the loop on all the workplace gossip, helping you appreciate the distance from it all while providing a bit of nostalgia.
Finally, time with your baby passes quicker than it feels in the moment. A friend who takes beautiful family photos, skillfully cropping out the background mess, is one you’ll want to invite to every gathering.
