
Are you, as a new parent, feeling exhausted, deprived of personal time, and overwhelmed? You’re not alone. Recent research reveals that one in three new parents felt unprepared for their role, with primary challenges including sleep deprivation, lack of personal time, and post-delivery pain.
A survey, involving 1,000 new mothers and fathers, conducted by The Baby Show in collaboration with MadeForMums.com, found that sleep disruption ranks as the most significant hurdle for parents of newborns. Additionally, 41% of mothers reported that physical pain after birth was more intense than anticipated.
The survey also highlighted issues of isolation and a scarcity of personal time. Over half of the parents admitted to staying indoors for more than three consecutive days with their newborn, and more than a third found themselves unable to change out of their pajamas.
Despite the wealth of available information, uncertainty persists; one in five parents admitted to having an irrational fear of accidentally harming their baby.
Nevertheless, these challenges come with rewarding experiences. Watching their baby’s growth and development emerged as the top joy of parenthood, followed by the unconditional love felt, and the delight of seeing their baby’s first smile.
Parenting author Milli Hill stresses the importance of setting realistic expectations, connecting with other parents for advice, and communicating openly with one’s partner. “New parents are often too hard on themselves. If your baby is safe and loved, you’re doing a remarkable job,” she said, encouraging parents to value themselves as much as their babies do.